Your success as a leader will be built on a foundation of two things: (1) your ability to get things done or accomplish tasks, and (2) your ability to forge and sustain positive relationships with other people. True leadership means focusing on both tasks and relationships. No matter how driven, focused, and hardworking you may be, you won’t be effective in life unless you can develop solid, healthy relationships. In today’s organization your ability to build successful relationships with employees, peers, your boss, and customers is a key skill – one that can help move you and your unit ahead or significantly hold you back.
Creating the kinds of working relationships that will help to take you, your team, and your organization to new levels of success and accomplishment takes hard work and constant effort. When your working relationships are effective, you are able to truly lead your team to get the job done. When your relationships are poor, you simply won’t be able to get the results you and your organization need. And, in all likelihood, you will have a team that is not actively engaged in doing a good job. Your people will not be happy and productive; they may well “vote with their feet” by leaving. Research clearly shows that employees do not leave jobs, they leave managers.
What do you expect of your key relationships – employees, co-workers, boss, spouse, family – in your life? Do you expect those relationships to be relatively positive most of the time? Do you expect your employees to perform well consistently? Do they actually perform well most of the time? Do you expect your boss to keep you in the loop, communicate well and thoughtfully, give you opportunities to grow, and help you in your career?
On the other hand, do you expect your employees to be lazy, unengaged in their work, and generally perform poorly? Do they act that way? Do you expect your boss to be a jerk? And does he/she behave like one?
I submit that in both cases you are getting the result you expect. It is the expectation itself – a belief you hold that has not yet come true – that at least partially causes that expectation to become reality. People tend to live up (or down) to our expectations of them.
Think about the expectations you have for the people around you. Are your expectations results-oriented with a positive focus? If so, your odds improve that the successful outcome you want will become true.
October 15, 2009
Categories: Leadership, management . . Author: Knudstrup Paul . Comments: Leave a Comment